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Are You Teaching Him How To Treat You? | PairedLife
Amazon Advertising Find, attract, and engage customers. If you do not stand by what you want and need, who else is going to? Sitting in your room watching various Nicholas Sparks movies and dreaming about the fictional characters gets you no closer to being treated the way you deserve by men. You are the only one who can accomplish anything, through giving yourself what you deserve first. You know what you deserve.
You know how special and unique you are.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to feel a little special. You just have to know what you want and demand that. After you start to love you, you find the men that love you too. The secret to finding the guys that will treat you the way that you deserve, is refusing to settle for less than that from any man.
There are a lot of things in life that you may feel forced to settle with, but the respect and love that you demand from others sure as hell should not be one of them. I am being very literal when I say that if someone disrespects you or hurts you, actually walk away. The secret to getting men to treat you the right way: Only give the time of day to the ones that do. Lexi is the founder of HerTrack. Lexi contributes to a number of online publications and is always trying to get involved in the conversation.
She's an advocate for equality, knowledge, healthy relationships, compassion, self-confidence, integrity and above all, love. She's addicted to caffeinated beverages and people who make her smile. Reblogged this on femmemarita's Blog.
This is the first kind of “not being treated right”– someone is disrespecting or hurting you.
I was raised by my mom and sister in the south. My mom is a strong who commands respect. I treat women with respect, avoid booty calls, avoid drunken hook ups, hold doors, offer help where I can. If you want to spend your relationship correcting him or worse, pretending everything he does is perfect, then just keep hinting and letting him guess what you want. If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to invest in training your man. Training him is NOT changing him. If he is a smoker, he will smoke. If he is a drinker, he will drink.
The Secret to Getting Guys to Treat You Right
If he is a hoarder, he will hoard. Training a man is teaching him up front what you like, what you want, what you expect and what you are willing to be, give or do. It is setting him up to succeed with you, and succeed faster and better than any past untrained man. Here are 15 things to teach your man that will make your relationship a million times more satisfying. You wash the clothes he leaves at your place. You get his truck washed when he loans it to you to move something. Maybe you go so far as to clean out his refrigerator when you notice a strange odor while getting cream for your coffee.
While you may just think you are doing simple things to either impress him or just be sweet to him, these kinds of things are setting you up to be his maid…maid with benefits. Grown men are usually neat creatures by nature; perhaps not as much a clean freak as you may be, but clean in general. However, he handled it all himself before you came along.
Even the best-intentioned man can get used to his woman cleaning up after him and slowly but surely, he stops doing those things himself. Ask him to do the breakfast dishes if you are the first one leaving. The thing to remember is you have to ask him. Train him to reciprocate from the beginning and reward him for doing it. Speaking of rewards, this is a great way to train him to be consistently awesome. Whenever he does something right and good, even the smallest thing that you feel he should do, reward him.
Compliment him and give him words of appreciation for the small things. Sex, affection and other favors will make him remember to do the big things again. I know this sounds like you are training a dog, and many websites will say you are.
I always notice that when I compliment my husband or say thank you for the small things, he actually preens, even after or especially after all these years. Sometimes he even runs off to do something else nice. The great thing about a reward system is you can always come back to it. Just start those compliments, appreciation and special favors again. He will come around quickly. Yes, you should punish him for being an ass. This goes hand in hand with the rewards system, and yes, we are still talking about your man; not your dog.
With your dog, you might pull the choke chain or give a smack on the nose for bad behavior. Your child will get a time out. Both of these disciplines require your attention. I feel the best way to punish a man is to take away your attention. If you rant and rave or cause a scene, those actions only makes you look bad. If he acts like a total jerk, remove yourself from his presence or the situation. You are cool and classy and he is left to contemplate what he has done. Then let him chase you down. Trust me; he will. Another great form of punishment when he is really awful is withholding what he wants the most.
Not putting out will condition him not to repeat the same mistake. He will only understand the repercussions of his actions if he is feeling deprived. This is why yelling at him will never work; holding out will. This is an important one to take charge of in the beginning. Yes, yes, I know. You both also put a little more effort in than normal and you are totally turned on by just about anything the other does.